Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down.
Our surrounding relationships can be amazing. Both mentally and physically relationships can give us immense joy, security and a sense of belonging. Of corse, these bonds with come and go in your life, all serving various purposes and teaching us lessons we may never have expected. Signals of a healthy bond with another generally consists of a mixture of elements; true respect, a listener, consideration to your opposing beliefs, a familiar or respected morality, telling us the brutal truth when it may be difficult, loyalty and general good intentions for you, a selfless attitude therefore not a constant need to gain from the bond.
We are forever making both conscious and unconscious choices on distributing our time, effort, money and energy into the world. But what happens when these decisions may not be healthy? Wondering what is it within friendships, relationships and bonds that affects these decisions we make. It’s very easy to deliver these precious attributes we have in the wrong places, and the aftermath of these decisions can be substantial.
Your vibe attracts your tribe! Generally this applies if you find yourself in circumstances where you truly are in the wrong company. Maybe you’ve found yourself having the convocation with your parents in relation to your friends at college? Or maybe finding yourself getting home at 5am every Saturday after Friday work drinks? Of corse, these are totally ok if your happy.
Those around you are truly writing your future with you. This is important to remember when evaluating your current surroundings. If you have a crowd of 10 people, 9 of whom engage in illegal activity ie. drugs or crime, there’s a good chance you will find yourself in these situations to!
However sometimes can be an insightful way of accessing your own current mental and emotional status. These signs and clues can be monumental in giving you this insight.